In this Issue: Pain Management Tools: Part 2 Letters and much more… Meeting reports: --∞∞o∞∞-- FROM THE EDITOR Hi Fellow PPS Manager, As I begin work on the last newsletter of 2007, it seems impossible that yet another year is almost passed and the PPS Manager newsletter is still going. It started as a volunteer effort to share our hard earned lessons about PPS, and so it continues. As you may already know, doing volunteer work is good for you. Just a few minutes of Internet research on the subject brought up enough information to write a book. But I didn’t. In short, volunteering is good Karma. You should try it. Just ask Gladys. In her San Diego meeting report, she wrote about me, so I wrote about her as part of my second installment of Pain Management Tools. I think you’ll see the connection. Have fun .... Rick --∞∞o∞∞-- Pain Management Tools: In the last issue of The PPS Manager Newsletter (September, 2006) I presented the concept of using assistive devices – a scooter, braces, a bilevel machine, etc. – as pain management tools. But, physical comfort is only the first step. In this installment, I’d like to consider some non-mechanical ideas as pain management tools. Meditation Although I was never very good at classic forms of meditation, there have been several other methods that popped up over the years. My favorite is the Native American custom of going out alone to greet the new day. For the past few years I’ve sat outside nearly every morning and watched as the light of day silhouettes the western horizon. I fixed up a little spot outside my back door where I can relax. I empty my mind of thoughts of the day, concentrate on my breathing, ignore the sounds of morning traffic, and listen to the sounds of birds or nothing at all. Granted, I have a great view of the distant mountain, and there is seldom a cloudy day in Southern California, but you get the idea. This five or ten minute routine sets the mood for the day and helps reduce stress in ways I never thought possible. The greatest benefit is that whenever an unexpected problem pops up during the day, I can revert back to that quiet moment and handle each new challenge with a calm and calculating approach. Even if no pipes break, the car doesn’t start making a noise, or you don’t discover you’ve out of run out of red wine (hey, one a day is good for you, right?:-) you’re still a step ahead of the game.
PPS Friends Knowing you’re not alone is very comforting. Go to meetings to learn and share PPS management techniques, find a better doctor, see the faces of real people who know your situation. But don’t whine about it. That just reinforces the bad stuff and transfers the negatives to everyone else. In spite of our problems, there’s a lot of good to share and that’s what meetings are for: moving forward for a better life. On the other hand, for many of us the polio experience included serious emotional trauma. Occasionally, someone may come to a meeting in need of support in an area that’s beyond our ability to help. Although some meetings have had guest speakers who are professional counselors, I’ve never been to a meeting that was lead by a psychiatrist and geared strictly for emotional rehabilitation. That’s our chance to do some good by being there for that person in the spirit of friendship. It doesn’t sound like much, but it is. "Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having to neither weigh thought nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away." Volunteerism Reaching out a helping hand, having someone take hold, knowing you made a difference in someone’s life: there’s nothing like it. Everybody wins. If you read Gladys Swensrud’s San Diego meeting report in this issue, you’ll see that she said a lot of nice things about me and about my volunteer work. Thanks, Gladys, but I do it for me, too. And, the neat thing is, I do most of it from right here at my comfy chair. I poke around the Internet, think a while, stare out the window, talk on the phone … it’s not really hard to do, but I get a lot of positive feedback. It makes me feel good. Gladys, on the other hand, does some really great things. Maybe her activities will give you an idea or two. She worked hard to make access to the San Diego Zoo and Wild Animal Park no longer a legal threat to those of us who are on wheels. She was instrumental in creating Kaiser’s program for neuromuscular breathing patients, she makes blankets for children in need of comfort, and she just started volunteering to visit sick children at Kaiser. All this with no gain for herself other than the peace of knowing she made someone else’s life better. Oh, and don’t forget her comfort cookies! Another thing that Gladys, myself, and many others do is share our stories and ideas. All you have to do is write it down and let me put it in the newsletter. Folks really appreciate hearing what others have to say. It’s easy and everybody wins.
Find and Follow Your Passion We tend to get caught up in this PPS thing to the point where there’s nothing else. Being passionate about something produces natural endorphins – painkillers that, unlike pills, have little or no side effects. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve packed up my guitar to go out and play music with friends while thinking I was too sore to be doing this. Then, an hour later, the music is pouring out and I feel only happiness. Or I sit down to write thinking nothing’s going to happen because I feel a little brain weary (like two hours ago) and here I am wondering where the time went. We all have it in us. You can dictate your story onto tape or write it, you can read to children, you can do things you thought you couldn’t. It just takes a little careful planning, and passion. Let it out. Things to Avoid Too much of anything: coffee, alcohol, feeling sorry for yourself (a little bit is unavoidable, but don’t overdo), news, exercise, medications, PPS information … Yes, I limit the amount of PPS stuff I read or think about. I get a dozen PPS newsletters, there are a couple of books about polio that I haven’t read yet, and some research I could be doing but haven’t done. There are also a few chat groups on the Internet that I don’t take part in because it’s too much for me. Too much of anything can increase physical or emotional stress. Even if it’s something that’s good for you, if you do it in excess, you can get burned out and it will no longer have the beneficial effects. In Conclusion Finally, don’t take yourself too seriously. Fortunately, when I write for the newsletter, it’s as easy as talking to a friend. I don’t worry about what I say being misinterpreted. I’m just sharing my thoughts and experiences, just as I would like you to share yours. So, don’t be afraid to share. We’re in this together. --∞∞o∞∞-- [Recently, Sunny Roller did a survey of 15 carefully chosen elders within the PPS community across the United States. The following is her summary of that project preceded by letters sent to the PPS Manager newsletter. – ed] Dear Rick, You perhaps remember that last year I was invited to participate in a study researching how PPS elder are coping with aging. There were 15 of us nationwide and the average age was 73 years. (I was obviously at the "ancient" end of the spectrum, since I will be 87 in December and Bill and I, incidentally, will have been married 65 years in Nov.) … I feel deeply privileged to have been a part of this soul-searching thought-provoking research. And I am honored to be in the company of Richard Daggert, whom I have known for many years and highly admire. We, in our adventures with the effects of Polio are rightfully searching for solutions to physical problems endured from PPS and aging. I have often felt that the emotional factors with which we constantly deal are not often enough addressed. And basic to it all is that profound word: ATTITUDE! Beverly Mc Gaugh [And, from Rick Kneeshaw, Leader of The San Diego PPS Support Group and from his second in command, Steve Goldman] I thought you would enjoy knowing that our late friend Bob Hudson was part of this study. The researcher flew out to California to interview him after I recommended him as the most positive member of our group. I sure miss him. -- Hey Rick, et al, Thanks for sending this along. Upon reading the story I could just picture Bob answering the way Ginny [Sunny Roller] depicted. We all miss Bob's smiling face and dry wit at our meetings. I know he's up there needling me. I just miss giving it back to him! Steve Goldman ******* Aging Well with Polio: Condensed from a Presentation by: I remember in 1954, when I was a little girl of six who had been walking with long leg braces and two crutches for just two years, my Mom and Dad bought me a little doll named Ginny. Ginny became my favorite doll of all time. She was eight inches tall, had bright blonde hair and was very portable. Because she was small, I could carry her anywhere. Ginny and I became very good friends. We played in the dollhouse; we chatted and had fun in the back yard playhouse. She had all kinds of pretty clothes and was happy with me. We even went to the Detroit Orthopedic Clinic regularly and had several polio surgeries at Children’s Hospital together. When Ginny first arrived in my arms, Mom carefully showed me that she came with a little printed heart-shaped tag around her wrist that said something very important to children about life. The tag read, open your heart; open your mind. Look for the best and that’s what you’ll find. Through the years, in my times of growth, searching, adaptation, struggle and bewilderment, Mom often reminded me of Ginny’s simple but profound message to us about life. Open your heart; open your mind. Look for the best and that’s what you’ll find. Today, these optimistic words drift back to me stronger than ever as I apply them to my late life years as a polio survivor.
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Meeting Notes, Volunteering, and More By Gladys Swensrud The guest speaker at our September meeting was our very own PPS Manager, Rick Van Der Linden. We tremendously appreciated that he drove the 100 mile round-trip distance between Hemet and San Diego; he shared not only his thoughts on respiratory issues, but, to the delight of all in attendance, he entertained us with his guitar and harmonica talents as well. Although this might veer from the traditional meeting report, I have a rare opportunity to sing Rick’s praises and, at the same time, cover an issue about which he has asked me to write and share some thoughts – volunteerism. Volunteering takes many forms. In Rick’s case, I know first hand that he: travels to speak to various groups within southern CA, spearheads the Hemet Area Polio Survivors (HAPS) group, writes and edits our local area PPS newsletter, answers endless questions posed to him via email and phone calls about respiratory issues, constantly updates the PPS Manager website, picks up HAPS members without transportation prior to meetings to be sure they have a ride, drives ill friends to doctor and hospital appointments, etc., etc. Without hesitation, Rick gives of himself and his time doing kind things for others and helping wherever a need exists. Volunteering is good for the soul! Helping others tends to take the focus off of self and places it where it has the potential to do greater good. There is a particular feeling of warmth of heart which comes from helping a child or giving of your time to assist a friend in need. Regardless of your skill level, there are many ways in which each of us can volunteer to help improve the communities in which we live. We can offer to tutor students at a nearby school; we can volunteer at our neighborhood library. Reading to a youngster is one of the most valuable gifts which you can share with a child. While improving their reading skills, you are simultaneously also giving them a bit of your time and attention, both commodities in increasingly short supply in today’s hurried world. And don’t forget, seniors in nursing homes need that one-on-one attention as well. They love playing cards or games. Just having someone to sit and talk with them can bring sunshine into an otherwise mundane day. Even those of you who are homebound can do things to make a difference. You can volunteer to help your PPS group facilitator phone group members prior to meetings. You can answer the call of national PPS groups to support legislation to help the disabled. You might do something as simple as making cookies for a friend. If it makes your heart smile with happiness, then you know your time has been well invested. Thanks, Rick, for all you do, but especially for what you do to improve communication within PPS groups throughout our state. That contribution alone is priceless in more ways than you can imagine! THIS JUST IN: [The following report came in too late for the printed version of the newsletter -ed.] From Rick Kneeshaw, Leader of San Diego PPSG Don't forget to mark your calendars for our December 8th Holiday party. It's always fun. HOLIDAY PARTY ___The next San Diego meting:___ November 10, 10 AM -- Dealing with Smokey Air
HOLIDAY PARTY _______________________________ As I slid into the October 12th meeting a few minutes late, it was clear that having one more facilitator is a bonus. Joe Camaya and the group of new faces, and the faces that make almost every meeting, were already sharing the summer break events. An interesting theme immerging within the summer break travels of many was ‘accessibility of accommodations’. Although reservations were made early and it appeared that the destinations advertised the accessibility of rooms, homes, and grounds, there was an apparent non-meeting of the minds of just how accessible things might be upon arrival: * Second floor room with elevator access became a challenge when the dog decided the elevator just might be some creator wanting to swallow up all that enter. Just how do you pick-up a dog in one hand with a cane in the other, and still keep your balance? * The vacation home by the coast with beach access? The wheelchair and caregiver both gave out about the same time, and the view was enjoyed from not exactly the beach… Hum, the bathroom that almost fit the wheel chair was another challenge I can go on about the short comings of accessibility issues by saying that these trips were certainly enjoyed even if not perfect in the definition of ‘accessibility’. The parties involved did include management personnel, and all seemed to have been enlightened. So, a good time and learning experience was had by all. Kurt Sipolski has good news to share; the article he wrote, “IRIS: Too Early for Flowers” was optioned by Trinity TV – a production company, which specializes in faith and family values films. The idea will be presented to filmmakers at their annual convention in Santa Monica at the end of October. If IRIS is selected to be made into a first-of-a-kind film, it will certainly bring polio back into the limelight. Joe brought more members’ notebooks and also the book Managing Post-Polio, a guide to living and aging well with PPS, second edition by Lauro S. Halstead. If members or PPS Manager readers need copies contact Joe Camaya -- stan-n-ollie@msn.com Joe has a list of speakers and topics he is working on for future meetings. We need speakers. If you can recruit your doctor, nutritionist, physical therapist, agency or group that might be of interest to our group please, contact Joe. Thanks, Barbara Hall _____The next meetings:_____ November 9
-- no report filed --______The next meeting:______ December 11 ____________________________
Hi Everybody. We had a really good meeting in October. Though there were just a few of us, we had a lively two hours discussing doctors, insurance, the upcoming meeting schedule, Measure G, and much more. A few of the members have recorded weight loss. As you know, losing a few pounds can make life easier for us by reducing the stress on our joints, improving efficiency, lowering the overall pain level. Gayle lost 15 pounds by loosely following the Weight Watchers plan, but she also noted that she heeded advice picked up at a HAPS meeting: First: Bread is a big offender. Second: If you eat sugary foods, your body will crave more. Cut it out, and the craving will go away. Because so many people had a hard time with the earlier meeting time of 10 AM, we decided to change it to 11, which meant we had to change the day as well, or find another room. So, starting in January the third Tuesday it is. Don’t forget. Apparently, this is better for church people, too. We also decided that, because the November meeting would be so close to Thanksgiving, we would skip it, so no November meeting. For December we’re having our annual party instead of meeting. This is sure to be our biggest ever! Have fun … Rick BIG CHRISTMAS PARTY! Date: DECEMBER 16
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November - no meeting December 16 -- PARTY ____________________________________
Special online report! As you may have heard, Dale Gerdes was recently diagnosed with melenoma and internal complications. He had various treatments including chemotherapy. This issue was at the printer's when we got the following e-mail from Judy Mahoney: << Subject: Dale Gerdes Update Wonderful news - Dale called Friday afternoon to let me know his last test came back Judy >> You go, Dale!
October 20, 2007
____The next Riverside PPSG meeting:____ December 15 PARTY ______________________________________ Riverside PPSG Meetings: third Saturday of even # months at 10 AM.
For information contact Marsha Hart Email healthwithhart@charter.net
__________Next meetings:___________ November 6 ___________________________________
POLIO SURVIVORS PLUS OF ORANGE COUNTY
Report by Sue Lau Respiratory relief. The general membership of Polio Survivors Plus (PSP) looked forward to the October 24th meeting, which was to feature Polio Survivor Gladys Swensrud. Unfortunately, the California fires caused her to stay close to home and be prepared for evacuation. Also, with the air quality taxing everyone, the Board of Directors decided to cancel the October meeting. Instead, PSP's Board of Directors elected to personally call each member and to keep telephonically in touch.
Involvement Promotes Socialization According to a study, conducted at the University of Chicago, researchers reported that loneliness caused more senior people to have higher blood pressure, lower levels of "good" cholesterol and higher levels of the "fight or flight" hormone epinephrine. Social isolation is linked to problems dealing with stress, poor sleep, heart disease, weak immunity and even Alzheimer's disease. Some 20 large-scale studies now indicate that the more socially integrated a person is, the longer one's life can be. This month, PSP members kept in touch by telephone as the fires filled the air with unhealthful matter and hence, socialization continued on a different level.
To Park or Not To Park It's recommended that if you keep a copy of the new DMV code to prevent an unnecessary citation or to accelerate a dismissal. The California Department of Motor Vehicles recently were amended, providing an exemption for those with special license plates or placard. The code reads: -- DMV Code 22511.85: A vehicle, identified with special license plate issued pursuant to Section 5007 or a distinguishing placard issued pursuant to Section 22511.55 or 22511.59, which is equipped with a lift, ramp or assistive equipment that is used for the loading and unloading of a person with a disability may park in not more than two adjacent stalls or spaces on a street or highway or in a public or private off-street parking facility if the equipment has been or will be used for loading or unloading a person with a disability, and if there is no single parking space immediately available on the street or highway or within the facility that is suitable for that purpose including, but not limited to, when there is not sufficient space to operate a vehicle lift, ramp or assistive equipment or there is not sufficient room for a person with a disability to exit the vehicle or maneuver once outside the vehicle." Spread Love Happy Harvest, everyone! It's that time of year again when we want to be with others, but we need to be extremely careful because we could catch the flu or a very bad cold. Good practices can help you to spread the love, but not the flu or other contagious conditions. The single best way to help prevent the flu is to get vaccinated. Anyone who is 50 years or more; anyone with a chronic health condition like PPS, diabetes, etc.; anyone living with or caring for someone who are considered high risk patients, should be vaccinated at this time. The next best practice is proper hand washing. Experts say that hand washing should be scheduled at least four times per day to reduce the spread of diseases by at least 50%. When washing your hands, it's recommended to use warm, running water with liquid or bar soap. Vigorously rub one's hands together to work up a sudsy lather away from the running water. Wash the front and back of one's hands, between the fingers and under the nails for at least 15 seconds. Then rinse one's hands well under warm water for another 15 seconds before drying one's hands with a clean towel or by air. When water and soap aren't available, use the waterless hand sanitizers or antibacterial wipes.
We Are One - The Future While membership is open to caregivers, health care providers and polio survivors, PSP's Board recently voted to collaborate program efforts with Laguna Woods' Hearing and Vision Impaired Club. PPSers and those who care for polio survivors are invited to learn about the "Jitterbug" phone this coming November 9th, Friday. Outreach Representative Meredith Berry will be the guest speaker. This special phone was designed by GreatCall, Inc., of Del Mar, CA, whose mission is to simplify technology and make it available to everyone. Then on December 14th, all (with confirmed reservations by December 7th) are invited to celebrate the holidays with an appearance by Clown Alley and "Piano Magic That Touches You," featuring Ralph Carnow, DDS. Both meetings will begin at 2-3:30 p.m. in Clubhouse 3 of Laguna Woods Village. Refreshments will be served. In addition, everyone is also urged to mark their calendars for a special program that has just been scheduled to take place at 1:30-3 p.m. on Wednesday, February 20, 2008 and that will feature: Carol Vandenakker, MD
For reservations and additional information, contact Sue Lau at Maliebchen@aol.com Again, the upcoming free programs are: November 9 ...... "Jitterbug Communications" ___________Next meeting:____________ NOVEMBER 9 DECEMBER 14 ___________________________________
To my Fellow readers, -- As usual, I enjoyed reading the latest PPS Manager, the September issue. If others haven't already done so, I would like to respond to Carolyn M.'s letter about dry mouth. I too suffered from dry mouth, and a humidifier didn't seem to help. Neither did drinking lots of water. It's a serious condition that can lead to dental problems. My dental hygienist suggested trying Oral Balance, a dry mouth moisturizing gel made by Biotene. It is available over the counter in most larger drugstores and at drugstore.com. I got some, followed the directions on the tube, and was delighted to discover it really helps. My dry mouth problem has been cut 80 to 90 percent. It may not work for everyone, but it certainly is worth a try. Incidentally, Biotene also puts out Oral Balance in liquid form, but for me, anyway, it doesn't seem to work as well as the gel. Keep up the good work, Rick. Delmer Ross --∞∞o∞∞-- THANKS Thank you for reading the PPS Manager Newsletter. And, thanks for your help and your words of encouragement. Special thanks to Sandy Van Der Linden for stapling and attaching the labels. Ann Howell for your graphics expertise. Your contributions keep this thing alive. --∞∞o∞∞-- To give financial help To submit ideas, writings, or commentary, write to above address, E-mail ppsman@adelphia.net, Information contained in this newsletter |
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